Mood disorder

Susan Boyle! from Britain's Got Talent

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9lp0IWv8QZY&feature=related

JUST WATCH THIS!!!
tak ble blah langsung tgk muka Simon Cowell..haha!
awesome!!! tenganga ok~~~~~~
unexpected.. and awesome!!

"..and more importantly, dia saudara sesama Islam aku.."

let me put this in a way we can relate with.

One day a patient comes into your office.
with a complaint of fatigue, anorexia and weight loss, bleeding tendency.
and after examining him, you found out he has jaundice and ascites.

so you ask for CBC, liver enzyme test and ELISA for Hepatitis B and C and a liver biopsy.

Diagnosis : Chronic Hepatitis C, with liver cirrhosis.

Prognosis : BAD

Treatment : Liver transplant.

but.. after the liver transplant, his body rejects the organ.

takkan kau nak biar patient kau mati je kan?
obviously you'll do something to lessen his pain regarding the fact that he's dying~

can you compare this case with my previous post?

kita gagal nak tegur kawan kita.. takkan kita nak biar je dia?
and aku harap semua kawan2 aku yang baca post ni, dapat msg yang cuba sampaikan ni.

contoh la .. dia minum arak~

"siti..jangan la minum arak..please.."
"eh mir kau tu sape nak paksa aku..lantak ar aku nak buat pape pun"
"aku x paksa kau~ aku nak nasihat je.. please.. aku tegur pun sebab kau kawan aku siti.."
"please la mir.. biar je aku ok.."

Diagnosis : Minum arak

Prognosis : Dosa besar = HELL

did we do anything when we saw our friend buat salah?
yes we did. kita tegur dia.
pastu? tu je? tu je usaha kita???
try lagi and try sampai kita penat.

So to compare with the patient, i mentioned that "xkn nak biar patient tu mati je walaupun xle nak wat pape, kita cuba lessen the pain"

translation : "xkn nk biar siti buat dosa je (wlaupun da tegor), kita cuba kurangkn dosa dia.."

you might get this kinda respond from the others,
"apsal nak kisah? biar je la dia buat dosa dia..kau dah tegur dia..dia nak buat gak, lantak p ar kt dia..you're just wasting your time." <-- a bit selfish there, don't you think so?

jawab ni..
"sebab dia kawan aku..and more importantly, dia saudara sesama Islam aku."

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"Wa3tasimu bihablillahi jami3an.. wala tafarraqu"
-and hold fast to the rope of Allah and be not divided amongst yourselves-
Qur'an 3:103
as Islam requires Muslims to be united together and warns against division

ni just opinion aku.betul ke salah, i oso donno. if ada yang nak tegur aku, sila.aku lagi suka =) ingat, kalu nak tegur tu, tegur leklok.
sorry juga kalau ade sape2 terasa ~

someone once told me..

you can never make a change if you go around "takleh buat ni! takleh buat tu!"
UNLESS..
you say it nicely and in an appropriate and polite way..

contoh eh..

scene A
"siti!! ko jangan wat menda tu!! haram la!! kau tak menda tu haram!! apsal ko buat lagi!!" (dgn tone yang sgt marah)

scene B
"siti.. you're my dearest fren~ and aku rs kau pon tau kan kapel tu xde baiknye.. pape aku cakap ni kau ble tolak or terima~ and aku takleh nak paksa kau sbb sape la aku ni kan~ i'm not ur mom or ur dad..but i'm your friend.. and i'm saying this because i care about you.. and aku tamo tengok ko menyesal 1 hari nnti~" (dgn tone yang sangat lembut)

you might make a change there.
rather than scolding and fighting and eventually that person will start talking behind the 'other' person's back (mengumpat yang dosa nye lebih teruk dari makan daging sedara sndiri)..

response scene A
"wei ko tau x..housemate aku tu.. siot tol.. ade ke dia cakap kat aku yang menda tu haram bla3. ade ke fatwa cakap menda tu haram?? bodo tol la dia tu.. sape dia nak cakap camtu kat aku? dia ingat dia tu mak aku ke?" (sambil mengata sambil bertambah dosanye)


response scene B
"hurm.. aku rs.. betul jugak ape yg dia cakap tu.. mmg betul menda tu xde baiknye.."

jom try nasihat dgn cara yg betol n berhikmah~
and terimalah nasihat orang tu kalau kita sendiri tau apa yg diorang cuba cakap tu adalah yang benar..

orang lain2, opinion pon lain2.
tapi utk buat any decision, ask yourself this question "adakah kita buat ni sebab nafsu/keinginan sendiri or kerana Allah?"

kita semua dah besar matang..
kadang2 kita tatau pun tu sebenarnya bisikan syaitan..

try la bergaul both side. put yourself in his/her shoes.

then we can see ape sebenarnye core problem.

wallahu ta3ala a3lam.

DARE to be Different

when you try something different.. they'll be some pros and cons.
1. some people might accept it well.
or
2. some people might give irrelevant immature comments.

and when everyone else starts to do that 'something different', no. 2 dah tak bising.. nape ek?

dont be afraid of trying something different

(unless menda tu mmg sah2 melanggar hukum Allah)

procrastinating.....

bila saya malas..i tend to think of doing other things besides studying (obviously)

yes i know tomorrow ada mock exam. nama pon mock.. so i'm mocking the exam..
i'm so not taking this exam seriously. why should they name it "mock" exam!! now i have no mood of what so ever to study.. at all!!
if they say "oh this exam will be included in your finals" baru ar orang rasa bersemangat nak study.. its for our own go0d jugak whatttttt. hayooo

so now.. i cant even read the lecture's ppt slides without checking my facebook every 2mins.
MALAS OK.

as i was saying.. i tend to think of doing other things.. such as baking!
correction kepada yang menjawab soalan "what do u do when you're lazy" untuk aku masa prog motivasi tu.. i dont "masak" when i'm malas.. i prefer baking.. there's a difference.. check the dictionary..!!

what's on my mind?

"home baked chocolate chip co0kies cheesecake sandwiches"

amek kau. panjang giler name. tak sabar nak buat lepas mock exam!!!

tiba2 cephalic phase activated.. parotid gland secreting mucus dengan banyaknya..
ughh.. kalau boleh nak pi beli sekarang gak ingredients.. tapi sure dapat penampar free dari Yah sebab tak study..huhuhuuhu..


saya jealous dengan tambi. sebab dia boleh tido sepanjang hari and cakar orang and makan and defecate dan urinate without a care in the world~ and going straight to heaven after dying.
ughh. dengki.

dah2.. jom study~

4th of July : considered as the most late tarikh i've ever decide to balik msia. before this by the end of June sure dah sampai penang.

but 4th seems kinda early.. rasa nak balik lambat sikit pun ada. a bit guilty pulak balik 'awai' ni.~

so there you have it. i've raised the white flag. hope they're happy~ kaklong balik awai ni, boleh la belanja DSLR.. kan kan kan??

so today ada International Cultural Day.
some said it was an utter failure cuz 90% who came was malaysian.. 5% syrian and 5% egyptian. mana p egyptian lain~ it was more of a Malaysian cultural Day.what the..
but for me, i think it went well la. dak2 msian paling bersungguh2 pasang booth.. bagus2.
tahniah baji+temah n the rest who cooked the kuih muih.
silat perf tu cool eh~ and booth tourism tu mantop2.

sorry unit ekonomi x pasang gerai jual makanan.. ada ramai yang nak mati kelaparan tadi sebab xde makanan berat eh~ kesian tol.. aku pun nak mati kelaparan tadi.. @_@

tuesday ada mock exam and everybody's treating mock like its nothing.. sebab mock tak kira markah utk final.. (^^,) suke suke

til next time.

p/s: we got a new family member!

chicken tambi.